等他成熟后，就不属于你了

一个朋友说

女人是男人的 学校

二十出头的男人都是不成熟的是幼稚的

你用自己最美好的二十几岁时光去改造一个男人

你看那些三十多的男人都是被改造过的

与一个和自己一样大的男人在一起要很费心

从 一次次的误会中女人教会他们如何让女人

从一次次的争吵中女人 教会他们如何哄女人

从一次次的冷战中女人教会他们如何懂得珍惜女人

她们教会他们的太多太多

包括 如何表白 如何接吻 如何拥抱 如何约会如 何很自然的和异性在一起

但是这个过程是漫长而艰辛的

经历了太多太多

有过太多太多 的磨合和争吵

他们还是不成熟

然而似乎已经一点点的靠近成熟

有时候

男人与女人甚至觉得互相难以沟通

在女人看来是男人错的时候

当然

他们认为自己没有错

于是

她们哭泣争吵歇斯底里

他们却觉得 她们不可理喻

成熟的男人是不会让自己的女人那么伤心的

有时候没有绝对的谁对谁错

双方 之间需要有一个人站出来主动道歉

就会海阔天空

但是那个人

永远都不能是女人

因为女人永远是弱者

当有一天他们开始争吵

他还是不肯让着她

她痛苦万分

那个不成熟的男人会极尽幼稚的去气她

不去安慰她

让她自己去释然

眼泪哭干了

也等不来一句

但是因为她爱他

想要和他一直 过下去

女人选择了忍受和包容

心想只要这个男人爱她就好

不会 哄人就算了

虽然很想被她哄

终 于有一天

争吵的悲剧又接二连三 的上演

她们忍不了了

于是她们内心纠结

结果只有两个

要么他改变

要么她忍

然而这时候的她们的心

累了 倦了 也快死了

是放还是不放？

放下这个和自 己相恋多年的男人？

不舍

但是每次生气的时候就痛不欲生

有些女人放弃了

男人重新获得了自由

他可能暂时把 精力放到其他地方

他去工作

去生活

去成长

直到某一天

再次遇到一个女人

可 能是和之前某些很像的女人

这次

他们成熟了

懂得去哄人了

懂得去主动道歉

懂得去为她们 买礼物

懂得去怎么让她们开心

他们再也不会像以前那样吵的很凶互不相让了

可 这些其实都是之前的那个她一步一步的教出来的

她把他教会了

又拱手让给了别人

教他的过程里

是甜蜜夹杂着泪水的

男人是比同龄 的女人要不成熟的

几乎所有男人都是这样

等待着一个女人去改造的

这么说来并不是说女人很可怜

如 果你足够爱他

有足够的宽容

就去当他的学校

去改造他

那么

等尝到收获的喜悦就是 自己的

累了倦了的女人也可以直接找一个成熟懂事的

他们会很懂事的处理好一切

唯一 不同的是

他们心中一定会记得当初和他们争吵的那个女人

那个教会了他们认识女人的女人

这时候的他们都会在想

原来

人是这么的矛盾和自私

Before easter break

It's my 21st birthday before the break! 03/04/2010

Nothing big. Cuz i have never thought of having a big celebration since it's only a normal day to me but definitely not to my mom, which she suffered for hours on this particular date 21 years back, and pa and ma been suffering thru these years to raise me.

It just doesnt make me feel good when I keep spending their money celebrating happily here in Perth while they are working hard like an ox back in KL day and night.

My second cake on my 21st birthday

And I swear, I must have a huge nice specially designed bday cake on my next bday in KL, since i dont know where to order in Perth, and it must be real costly

Ultra woman with spoony eyes

We went to lady gaga's concert on the april fool. It's MARVELOUS! SHE IS THE BEST POP SINGER AND PERFORMER! she's amazingly great in making connections with every single audience. And Im glad I was one of the twenty thousands fans in the Dome that night.

Gaga belongs to the stage!

I see her around northbridge all the while!! she dressed up like this every single time!

Maybe not with the blood on normal days teehee ^^

I guess they are in their 40's! How brave to dress in such kinky way!

When we were queueing up to entry the Dome, we saw this girl, with the aluminium cans on her hair, like some crazy girl ran out from the salon in psychiatric hospital ><"

Okie dokie, it's a retarded version of imitating the Gaga's unique fashion

She looks gorgeous!

And finally me, also a retarded version of Gaga's remarkable MONSTER PAW!

RRAAAWWWWRRR!!!

End of March

It's only end of March, and I have more than 30 friends turning 21. But only few of them I manage to attend the party.

It's my turn this coming Saturday. How should the party be like? I dont know. All I want is just to have a great meal with few close friends which most of them are scattered around the world :(

* To him: There are so many places in the world to travel to, maybe just not Perth I guess

So yea, my pre-planning will be..

-Going to theme park on friday and pub at night
-Having lunch with friends and dinner with friends as well then club
-what else what else what else?
-no more lurrr...

It's only 21. Nothing much to me. Seriously, it's troublesome.

I just had a effing boring weekend and also a panic one. But thanks god, my tutor replied my mail finally few hours ago, and i can have a good sleep tonight.

I thought i would need to stay at home and study again today, but luckily Tim rang me and ask me out for a picnic. Thanks god! rushing to brush up, take shower, dress up and be ready, I have only got 30 mins to prepare. AND he told me he was on the way to my house to pick me up when i just got up from bed!! But luckily, I'm quite on time this time:)

I guess all my friends have experienced for waiting me. SO YESH! my new year resolution is, NEVER BE LATE NEVER LET OTHERS TO WAIT TOO LONG FOR ME =)

Finally did some shopping after 2 months. Bought quite a lot of shirts since i told iris i dont have much shirts in my wardrobe the other night. so yeah, i got all my deal from kookai.

AND ANOTHER BIG THING! iris found YSL in king street. Guess this shopaholic is super excited in continue exploring king street. so do I. hehe..

Can't wait to shop with her since our last shopping day was before last summer.

Hailstorm 22/3/2010

From what I've known, it's the first time having such a disaster in these few decades


I didn't go to uni today. but lucky to do so, at least, no brain damage hitting by hail stones from the sky. poor audi, 50+ audi cars were damaged by this afternoon hailstorm. Well, i guess if it's Volvo, it will end up differently.


Schools closed, serious flood in each area even right in Perth city centre where I'm staying, explosion in my uni, homes were destroyed, flights and trains affected, thousands homes without power supplying etc etc....

Seems like the world is going to hell in a handbasket. I think we are not too far away from Armageddon' 's myth.

Feel free to google more on it or check on the link on fb "I survived the Great Storm of Perth 22/3/2010"

*we have this superb nice view from the balcony but not this afternoon*

Came to think of my wedding in future. I dont want something traditional. I hate it! Like how my sister does. But too bad, since we are getting involve into business world, we can never run away from all the tranditions and typical wedding dinner.

But if you know me well, I am even more stubborn than those old people are.

I will definitely not make it as a typical "10-dishes, 10 people 1 table" wedding dinner!!

And if possible, I will not want my photoshooting scenes in Malaysia which choices are so limited. I love outdoor photoshootings. I'm active, I hate those indoor fake postures. I hate camwhoring.

What Im thinking of is getting a crew from Singapore (which most importantly they are similar to our culture in certain point but shines on theirs). And head off to a country for photoshooting. Dinners are the most important one I think. I need something impressing yet simple. Maybe not chinese food......

I know Im thinking too far away from reality. But it's good to always have dreams rather than chasing after time for nothing.

Should I get this present for me and him? I'm unning out of time for making this decision

当爱

当爱慢慢的淡化

当激情慢慢的减退

我开始慌

我清楚这分感觉

一次又一次的

其实爱情真的很脆弱

没有保障

也许他不知道

也许他假装

也许他逃避

这份爱

促渐的远离

Iris babe's 21st birthday

the living room

the kitchen

My arm looks real weird here. probably too drunk Oo

was trying hard to stay focus on the lense. too much alcohol :)
not drinking after one damn year..phobic

3.13, babe's birthday.

My best friend a.k.a. housemate

Since last year, we were planning on having a combined pool side party (house warming and her birthday) in our apartment.

In the end, she divided her birthday celebration into 2 nights for some reason.

On friday night, we went to a pub restaurant. Oh well, i had this super weird and overcooked pork sausages. David and Rob been making fun of it whole night! damn them! and then we went for karaoke session.

On saturday night, we had buffet at Rendezvous Hotel at Scarborough beach. The food variety is SUPER LIMITEDDDD!! seriuosly, i can't find any good buffet in Perth!

Another big thing for us this year, finally we've moved in to this new apartment. I think I'm guilty now, of having super luxury life. Thanks to B! We got ps3, Wii with 60++ games, and those super hightech equipments by david.

Unfortunately, Im too busy for all these :( I SWEAR, i will have all done during my winter break.

The living room plus balcony view

My room

My room

Love my room to the MAX after 3 days of moving and filling in :)

almost 2 weeks of zero internet life

welcome back to perth, again, the seventh time I say to myself.

Been real busy since uni started. loads of reports and essays to be handed in.

Last decision, and never is my choice, I ain't going to US with family. That's a fucked up ending.

In compensation, daddy promised me to travel to some other countries all up to my choice. hehe

But who to travel with me? ish...

Another way of comforting myself, i dont even have any extra time for any movie, neither laying on the bed in the morning on May. 13 assignments to be handed in throughout the whole month. 3 presenations, 4 essays with 5000 words, 1 online quiz, 1 lab exam, and 4 report with 500 words. And last but not least, conducting 2 psychology experiments. (Quite excited actually, as Im always the participant, and finally now im the experimenter)

BUT still..What a hassle.

That's how 3rd year should be right.