自大与自负

Was on the debate on the definition of 自大and自负the other day with mien, yi, and SS.

zi da and zi fu are both negative to me.

自负，you might be a talented one, u might share your knowledge with others, but one thing for sure, you think that no matter how hard others try, they will not be as good as you, you will still be the best

自大, = 井底之蛙, you think you are talented, you think you are the best, you think you are freaking pretty (in fact you're a slut), you think you are freaking rich (and keep telling everyone that they shouldnt tell out how freaking rich you are in case you get kidnapped), stepping on the same ground in the end

Can't be bothered that others camwhoring day and night, but please don't ever tell me that your intention is not waiting others to praise you by uploading tonnes of photos, yet act like you don't care if there is someone saying that you are freaking ugly or telling people that this is just a casual day for you (while you have spent freaking 4 hours to dress up and put on 3cm thick of flour on your face)

Can't be bothered that you are filthy rich and having 10 platinum credit cards, and Harrods is your second home, but please don't post up in Facebook or whatever media that give you a chance to show off by asking, "shall I get a Chanel or a Hermes today", or begging friends not to tell out that you have a Porche or Ferrari at home. They are just not so big deal in fact.

I have been reading on this famous Singaporean's blog for almost a year. Why is she successful? You might hate her, dislike her, think that she is ugly or what, but hey, she puts in 200% effort in every post, and 300% of sincerity. She accepts all the merits and critics, which I find a lot of young-quite-famous bloggers in KL are unbeatably narrowed minded and being petty.

Why are you a blogger? you accept money, blogging is your career, and being a famous blogger can't never run away from publicizing your life to some sense. You post up something, and you set a password that only your best best best friends are allowed to access. Or, you beg for comments and opinions for the post, yet not all comments will be published. This is not the way to be a good blogger, only if you think your beauty can last you another 10 years.